So back to my story, Once we had figured out that not even the credit counselors could help out. I decided to go online and research Bankruptcy. I ran into some awesome forums which had a great support group of people who let me know I made the right decision.
Here is a link to one of the forums. It was a life saver for understanding credit and what items will stay on your credit profile and how to remove false or erroneus information off of your credit report.
First thing you can during this time or prior to meeting with the lawyer is to get the service on your phone to screen calls. AT&T calls it privacy announcer. It requires the caller to announce who they are if they are coming from a 800 or private number. This will help you with the heart ache and avoid arguing with 3rd party scum collectors.
The next thing you may need to go through with the lawyer he will sit down and access your debt. You definitley as painful as it may seem write down all of your debt as well as property car,house,clothes,jewelry ect. For the jewelry and clothes they will be accessed at yardsale and pawn shop prices as was told to me by my lawyer. You will have to state what you want to keep as per cars and houses.
Once all of this is recorded they will have a “Meeting of the creditors” which creditors will show up to the bankruptcy filing to state their cases and organize any type of asset collection if any. Most of the time the major creditors will show up and say nothing. It is all for just record so don’t freak out.
During the process, they will ask you if you claim all is correct and the judge may ask you about the what car you want to keep or if you sold anything in the past 30 days prior to the hearing. Note* You are not allowed to transfer title or sell any property during this time.
The process is quiet simple and can be done on your own I do recommend hiring a lawyer to help with change in laws and paperwork. The main thing is to keep your head up and learn from this experience. You are not a bad person or irresponsible. This happens to people daily. As long as we keep the current lack of financial education in public schools and not teaching people on everyday credit and how it can help you we will as a nation continue to have financial downfall. I suggest reading the forums and learning about how credit cards can help you and hurt you.
When you are back to building credit you will have to have credit cards with a minimal balance and pay a monthly payment ontime.
DO NOT EVER BE LATE ON THIS!!
Paying the payment if it is $10.00 on a $100.00 balance it doesnt matter just keep them current. Make sure you are using your card for small managable purchases. This should not be used to pay bills or buy high ticket items you can not afford if so you will find yourself back in the same problem.
After about 2 years of the discharge you should be on the path to rebuilding your credit again. This is from my personal experience. I am 6 years in my discharge and have purchased property and cars and maintained very good credit. Also, another thing make sure that you keep your credit balance under 50% of the total balance or they will mark negatives against you and lower your credit score. High balance shows on your card as negatives. Also, be vigiliant when looking for loans not to have them “pop” your credit with inquiried too much. You are allowed so many in 30 days before it looks negative on your credit.
#1 ESTABLISH A BUDGET!!!
Here are some books that have helped me understand finances.